Announcements

New Announcements & Upcoming Events

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Echo House Fundraiser Potluck, Sunday, October 4th

Service Committee invites all to the Echo House Fundraiser Potluck on October 4th after the rise of Meeting.

Echo House is the Emergency Family Assistance Association’s [EFAA} emergency housing program for families with children facing homelessness in Boulder County. The suggested donation of $15 adults/$5 children will go towards Boulder Meeting’s Echo House Fund, which is used for purchase of supplies for the apartments as requested by EFAA.

Friends are asked to contribute main or side dishes, salads, or desserts. (In consideration of others’ allergies and dietary restrictions, please indicate if your dish contains meat, gluten, dairy, eggs, soy or any other common allergens.) We are also asking for help with setup, serving, and cleanup duties for the potluck. See the signup sheet in the Fellowship Room or contact a member of Service Committee (Perry Sailor, Fran Boler, Nancy Keith, Carol Chatfield, or Steven Sherman-Boemker).

Submitted by Fran Boler for the Service Committee

Join a group of Friends to carpool to the Mother Cabrini shrine on what used to be Columbus Day, Monday, Oct 5th

Monday, October 5th is a Colorado State holiday honoring Mother Cabrini in lieu of Columbus Day.  If you would like to join a group of Friends to carpool to the Mother Cabrini shrine in celebration of the day and to have a 30 minute silent gathering of Friends in the chapel at 10am, contact Dana Matthews at 281-806-2346 or DukeDanaDasan@gmail.com

 
Margot Smit presents: The Choice To Resist: What Our Relatives Did During the Nazi Occupation, Oct 8, 6:30 pm, Boulder Library
Presentation: The Choice To Resist: What Our Relatives Did During the Nazi Occupation of The Netherlands in WWII. 
 
Margot Smit of Boulder Meeting and friend André will speak about their family’s Resistance involvement, and ask: what choice might you have made? 
 
Thursday Oct 8, 2026. 6:30 – 8:00 p.m. Free.
Canyon Theater, Boulder Main Library.  
The Choice To Resist: What Our Relatives Did During the Nazi Occupation of The Netherlands in WWII.
 
BFM’s first SILENT RETREAT, Highlands Retreat Center in Allenspark, Oct 11-12, 2026, Registration Deadline Oct 7

SILENT RETREAT

Sponsored by your Spiritual Life & Membership Committee

Where: Highlands Camp and Retreat Center (HighlandsCamp.org) in Allenspark, CO
When: Sunday, October 11 to Monday, October 12.
Cost:  $106* for two people/room (Single rooms $62 more).
Registration Form***:
— On the table at the entrance to the Worship Room
OR
— Click HERE to download the fillable form, fill out the fields, and email it to Linda Johnson, Lilli Segre, or Becky Hutchins. Be sure to also give them your check.
*** Deadline to register is Wednesday, Oct. 7. 

Find out where the Spirit takes you during 24 hours of Silence!

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Our Meeting’s first Silent Retreat will begin with Check-in at 2 pm on Sunday, October 11 and end late afternoon (approximately 4:30) on Monday, October 12. It will be held at Highlands Camp and Retreat Center (HighlandsCamp.org) in Allenspark, CO. – about 40 minutes from BFM. Carpooling is encouraged. All are invited to join us – Members, Attenders and their friends.

The total cost is $106* which includes Lodging (two people/room), Meals (Dinner, Breakfast and Lunch), and Yoga (mat or chair), if desired.
*Funds are available to those who need financial assistance. (Please contact Chris Moore or Chris Griffin-Wehr, Co-Conveners of SL&M.)

Highlands offers many opportunities to spend time alone – to be out in nature exploring on your own – hiking trails, swings, a labyrinth, paths, places to meditate, rocks to climb, etc. Or inside, there is a large comfortable room with fireplace, a chapel and a large room for dining. Meals are served cafeteria style and silence will also be maintained while dining. Worship Sharing in the Chapel will end our Retreat (and our Silence) around 4:30.

You can pick up a Registration Form on the table at the entrance to the Worship Room or find it on-line. Please return it to Linda Johnson, Becky Hutchins or Lilli Segre at your earliest convenience with check (made out to Boulder Friends Meeting) attached. Or you can mail it to BFM, 1825 Upland Ave, Boulder, CO 80304. Space is limited.

*Single rooms are available for a total cost of $62 more.

Be an Informed Voter!
As Quakers we have an obligation to be informed and vote in accordance with our values.  The following are resources for information and recommendations on many of the initiatives on the Colorado November 2026 ballot.  

To Do: Get Informed on all 14 State ballot issues.  

Check with your county clerk for local ballot issues: HERE 

Colorado Office of Judicial Performance Evaluation Home 

Submitted by Mary Ann Fake

Exploring dementia and our life together as Friends, 3-Part series Dec - Jan, Registration required

Baltimore Yearly Meeting and New England Yearly Meeting are co-sponsoring a 3-Part series exploring dementia and our life together as Friends.
The cost of attendance is pay-as-led, and participants are welcome to attend any or all sessions. For information on speakers and topics, and to register, see:  

 
Dementia & Our Life Together as Friends
December 4, 2026
January 8, 2027
February 5, 2027
11 am – 1 pm MT
Colorful graphic displaying the name and time of the workshop with an image of an adult sitting with two children.
Details
Dementia is a common yet complex condition. Even though dementia is present in our communities,  it isn’t always easy for us to talk about openly. This workshop series offers a loving, honest space for interested Friends.  We invite caregivers, Friends experiencing cognitive decline, and those serving their Quaker meeting including in roles such as clerk, members of pastoral care,  ministry & council, or nominating committees to join us. Together,  we will explore how our communities can better understand dementia and support the participation of Friends living with dementia and their loved ones.
 
This series invites us to face dementia as a chance to deepen how we love and care for one another as a community of faith. We will draw on the wisdom already present among us, sharing what our Meetings have learned, while also identifying where further exploration and resources may be needed.
 
Our hope is that participants will leave with practical insight, decreased isolation, a sense of blessing in this faithful journey, and renewed confidence in speaking honestly and tenderly about dementia within our relationships and Meetings. 
 
The Spirit continues to work through us and through our meeting communities, even amid the changes and challenges dementia brings.
Brought to you by Baltimore Yearly Meeting and New England Yearly Meeting, this workshop is offered free of charge, with thanks to the Friends Foundation for the Aging.
Although the workshops are meant to build upon each other, you are welcome to participate even if you cannot make it to each session.
 
Part 1: Understanding Cognitive Decline and Dementia
Friday, December 4th from 11 am – 1 pm MT
Our guest presenter will be Kadine Mitchell, Chief Operating Officer of Friends House Retirement Community in Sandy Spring, Maryland. Drawing on over twenty years of experience in senior living and healthcare, Kadine will discuss cognitive decline, dementia, and memory care. Together, we will explore:
  • How do we talk about cognitive decline and dementia in a way that is accurate and non-stigmatizing?
  • How do we meet people where they are as they experience cognitive changes?
  • How does the reality of cognitive decline and dementia impact our relationships? 
Part 2: How Can Meetings Respond?
Friday, January 8th from 11 am – 1 pm MT
Drawing from personal stories, together we will explore questions like: 
  • How can Meetings offer pastoral care not only to Friends with dementia, but also to their caregivers and loved ones?
  • How can Quaker Meetings support Friends with cognitive decline and dementia in meeting for worship and meeting for business in ways that honor both the individual and the gathered community?
  • How can nominators and others help Friends with dementia continue to find meaningful ways to contribute to Meeting life as their capacity for service changes? 
Part 3: Dementia and One’s Spiritual Journey
Friday, February 5th from 11 am – 1 pm MT
Interwoven with worship, Friends will have the opportunity to reflect together:
  • What are the spiritual challenges and gifts that come with living with dementia as well as caregiving for loved ones?
  • How do cognitive impairments affect the spiritual journey? 
  • How can individuals, families, and faith communities make space and open ourselves to transformation through the pain and spiritual growth that comes with dementia?
Facilitators
Patti Muldoon, of Monadnock (New Hampshire) Meeting and previously Friends Meeting at Cambridge (Massachusetts), serves as New England Yearly Meeting’s Aging Resources Consultation and Help (ARCH) Coordinator. Drawing on years of experience accompanying others through loss, including as a death doula, Patti works with Friends and Friends meetings exploring aging and end of life issues.
Patti Nesbitt, of Sandy Spring (Maryland) Meeting, clerked Baltimore Yearly Meeting’s End of Life Working Group, co-authoring the book A Tender Time: Quaker Voices on the End of Life. Patti is a retired palliative care nurse, a caregiver, a traveling minister, and a graduate of the School of the Spirit.
 
Registration is now open! Register here.
Tom Masterson’s Spiritual Journey, Sunday, November 1, 2026, 12- 1 pm, Hybrid Program Hour.
Tom Masterson’s Spiritual Journey
We will meet in the worship room or, for those joining at home, we will be using our Meeting’s zoom link.
 
Please join us for this special time to learn about Tom’s spiritual life and development.
Through this sharing, we have the opportunity to deepen our community’s Quaker faith and practice. 
 
Please consider giving your spiritual journey or updating since your last one.  Contact Anne Marie Pois
 
Submitted by Anne Marie Pois
Join the Annual Crop Walk Fundraiser, October 18, 2 pm, Waneka Lake, Lafayette (or donate directly)

For many years Boulder Friends Meeting participated in the annual Crop Walk fundraiser for Community Food Share and Bread for the World.  

With federal SNAP benefit cutbacks, they have invited Friends to get involved this year for the October 18 walk by soliciting pledges or donating directly.  It’s a two mile walk around Waneka Lake in Lafayette.

See https://events.crophungerwalk.org/chw/event/boulderco for a flyer and information on registration, map, and everything you need!

📍 Location: First United Methodist of Lafayette — 1255 Centaur Village Dr, Lafayette, CO
📅 Date: Sunday, October 18, 2026
🕐 Registration starts: 1:00 PM
👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Walk begins: 2:00 PM

Posted by DeAnne Butterfield

 
A request that Friends avoid ministry in meeting about political parties, candidates or elected officials
On political messages in Meeting – Our weekly Meeting for Worship and time for Joys and Sorrows are sacred times for us to listen to the Spirit and cherish our community.  For many, Sunday worship is a refuge from politics and turmoil that are surrounding us this fall. As we seek peace, justice, equality and stewardship in our lives and the world, we request that Friends avoid ministry in meeting about political parties, candidates or elected officials.
 
Posted by Chris Moore for SL&M

Upcoming Meeting Events

Mark your calendar! These are listed in chronological order, and are events held at the Meetinghouse

Echo House Fundraiser Potluck, Sunday, October 4th

Service Committee invites all to the Echo House Fundraiser Potluck on October 4th after the rise of Meeting.

Echo House is the Emergency Family Assistance Association’s [EFAA} emergency housing program for families with children facing homelessness in Boulder County. The suggested donation of $15 adults/$5 children will go towards Boulder Meeting’s Echo House Fund, which is used for purchase of supplies for the apartments as requested by EFAA.

Friends are asked to contribute main or side dishes, salads, or desserts. (In consideration of others’ allergies and dietary restrictions, please indicate if your dish contains meat, gluten, dairy, eggs, soy or any other common allergens.) We are also asking for help with setup, serving, and cleanup duties for the potluck. See the signup sheet in the Fellowship Room or contact a member of Service Committee (Perry Sailor, Fran Boler, Nancy Keith, Carol Chatfield, or Steven Sherman-Boemker).

Submitted by Fran Boler for the Service Committee

BFM’s first SILENT RETREAT, Highlands Retreat Center in Allenspark, Oct 11-12, 2026, Registration Deadline Oct 7

SILENT RETREAT

Sponsored by your Spiritual Life & Membership Committee

Where: Highlands Camp and Retreat Center (HighlandsCamp.org) in Allenspark, CO
When: Sunday, October 11 to Monday, October 12.
Cost:  $106* for two people/room (Single rooms $62 more).
Registration Form***:
— On the table at the entrance to the Worship Room
OR
— Click HERE to download the fillable form, fill out the fields, and email it to Linda Johnson, Lilli Segre, or Becky Hutchins. Be sure to also give them your check.
*** Deadline to register is Wednesday, Oct. 7. 

Find out where the Spirit takes you during 24 hours of Silence!

————————–

Our Meeting’s first Silent Retreat will begin with Check-in at 2 pm on Sunday, October 11 and end late afternoon (approximately 4:30) on Monday, October 12. It will be held at Highlands Camp and Retreat Center (HighlandsCamp.org) in Allenspark, CO. – about 40 minutes from BFM. Carpooling is encouraged. All are invited to join us – Members, Attenders and their friends.

The total cost is $106* which includes Lodging (two people/room), Meals (Dinner, Breakfast and Lunch), and Yoga (mat or chair), if desired.
*Funds are available to those who need financial assistance. (Please contact Chris Moore or Chris Griffin-Wehr, Co-Conveners of SL&M.)

Highlands offers many opportunities to spend time alone – to be out in nature exploring on your own – hiking trails, swings, a labyrinth, paths, places to meditate, rocks to climb, etc. Or inside, there is a large comfortable room with fireplace, a chapel and a large room for dining. Meals are served cafeteria style and silence will also be maintained while dining. Worship Sharing in the Chapel will end our Retreat (and our Silence) around 4:30.

You can pick up a Registration Form on the table at the entrance to the Worship Room or find it on-line. Please return it to Linda Johnson, Becky Hutchins or Lilli Segre at your earliest convenience with check (made out to Boulder Friends Meeting) attached. Or you can mail it to BFM, 1825 Upland Ave, Boulder, CO 80304. Space is limited.

*Single rooms are available for a total cost of $62 more.

Higher Education Scholarship Committee has funds for BFM students

Higher Education Scholarship Committee funds undergraduate education and professional certificates for students associated with Boulder Friends Meeting.

Information on eligibility and application requirements are at this link.  Please submit application materials at least 2 months before your classes begin. 

Submitted by Marybeth Neal.

Informal Chats After Meeting on 1st and 3rd Sundays

“What happened in Meeting today?” “How can I better center down during Meeting for Worship?” “What do Quakers mean when they say ‘Friend speaks my mind’?”

The Spiritual Growth Revitalization Committee holds informal discussion sessions on the first and third Sundays of the month to consider questions like these.

The sessions are intended for newcomers as well as knowledgeable and long-time Quakers. We will meet in the Library after the rise of Meeting for approximately 30 minutes. The chat scheduled for October 20 has been rescheduled for October 27.

 
Program: Join IPC Committee for "Boulder's Fort Chambers: Its History and Its Future", Sunday, Oct 25, noon-1 pm, Hybrid

Join the Indigenous Peoples Concerns Committee (IPC) for a hybrid program hour on October 25 (noon to 1 pm): “Boulder’s Fort Chambers: Its History and Its Future.” Learn how IPC is advocating for truth-telling at this site, which was a staging ground for the Sand Creek Massacre. 

https://zoom.us/j/96273568620?pwd=TDlDTW1SalJGUzRjT3B1dnkwbnhoZz09
Join with audio only by phone: 1-669-900-6833 (*6 to mute/unmute, *9 to raise hand)
Meeting ID: 962 7356 8620 Password: 063025

Posted by Paula Palmer

Tom Masterson’s Spiritual Journey, Sunday, November 1, 2026, 12- 1 pm, Hybrid Program Hour.
Tom Masterson’s Spiritual Journey
We will meet in the worship room or, for those joining at home, we will be using our Meeting’s zoom link.
 
Please join us for this special time to learn about Tom’s spiritual life and development.
Through this sharing, we have the opportunity to deepen our community’s Quaker faith and practice. 
 
Please consider giving your spiritual journey or updating since your last one.  Contact Anne Marie Pois
 
Submitted by Anne Marie Pois
Next 5th Sunday Singing, November 29, 11:45-12:45 pm, in the Meetinghouse
Our next 5th Sunday Singing will be on Sunday, November 29,, from about 11:45-12:45 pm, in the BFM Meetingroom.
Carolyn Kuban and  Toby Gallegos will facilitate the group and also provide harp and guitar accompaniment. Song books are provided. You provide your voice—
 

Note: We enjoy a relaxed atmosphere where participants can take their time choosing song requests, take turns for anyone’s request, and even share and reflect knowledge or a memory about a particular song that speaks to them. 

And you may notice how the Meetingroom is such a resonant and peaceful venue for making music, where everyone sounds good and all voices are can blend, lovely to experience!   

Come all-ages!  No need to have singing experience. Families welcome…

 See you there! 

Contact Carolyn Kuban with questions or concerns

 

 

Learn and/or Take Action

Be an Informed Voter!
As Quakers we have an obligation to be informed and vote in accordance with our values.  The following are resources for information and recommendations on many of the initiatives on the Colorado November 2026 ballot.  

To Do: Get Informed on all 14 State ballot issues.  

Check with your county clerk for local ballot issues: HERE 

Colorado Office of Judicial Performance Evaluation Home 

Submitted by Mary Ann Fake

Join a group of Friends to carpool to the Mother Cabrini shrine on what used to be Columbus Day, Monday, Oct 5th

Monday, October 5th is a Colorado State holiday honoring Mother Cabrini in lieu of Columbus Day.  If you would like to join a group of Friends to carpool to the Mother Cabrini shrine in celebration of the day and to have a 30 minute silent gathering of Friends in the chapel at 10am, contact Dana Matthews at 281-806-2346 or DukeDanaDasan@gmail.com

 
Join the Annual Crop Walk Fundraiser, October 18, 2 pm, Waneka Lake, Lafayette (or donate directly)

For many years Boulder Friends Meeting participated in the annual Crop Walk fundraiser for Community Food Share and Bread for the World.  

With federal SNAP benefit cutbacks, they have invited Friends to get involved this year for the October 18 walk by soliciting pledges or donating directly.  It’s a two mile walk around Waneka Lake in Lafayette.

See https://events.crophungerwalk.org/chw/event/boulderco for a flyer and information on registration, map, and everything you need!

📍 Location: First United Methodist of Lafayette — 1255 Centaur Village Dr, Lafayette, CO
📅 Date: Sunday, October 18, 2026
🕐 Registration starts: 1:00 PM
👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Walk begins: 2:00 PM

Posted by DeAnne Butterfield

 
Exploring dementia and our life together as Friends, 3-Part series Dec - Jan, Registration required

Baltimore Yearly Meeting and New England Yearly Meeting are co-sponsoring a 3-Part series exploring dementia and our life together as Friends.
The cost of attendance is pay-as-led, and participants are welcome to attend any or all sessions. For information on speakers and topics, and to register, see:  

 
Dementia & Our Life Together as Friends
December 4, 2026
January 8, 2027
February 5, 2027
11 am – 1 pm MT
Colorful graphic displaying the name and time of the workshop with an image of an adult sitting with two children.
Details
Dementia is a common yet complex condition. Even though dementia is present in our communities,  it isn’t always easy for us to talk about openly. This workshop series offers a loving, honest space for interested Friends.  We invite caregivers, Friends experiencing cognitive decline, and those serving their Quaker meeting including in roles such as clerk, members of pastoral care,  ministry & council, or nominating committees to join us. Together,  we will explore how our communities can better understand dementia and support the participation of Friends living with dementia and their loved ones.
 
This series invites us to face dementia as a chance to deepen how we love and care for one another as a community of faith. We will draw on the wisdom already present among us, sharing what our Meetings have learned, while also identifying where further exploration and resources may be needed.
 
Our hope is that participants will leave with practical insight, decreased isolation, a sense of blessing in this faithful journey, and renewed confidence in speaking honestly and tenderly about dementia within our relationships and Meetings. 
 
The Spirit continues to work through us and through our meeting communities, even amid the changes and challenges dementia brings.
Brought to you by Baltimore Yearly Meeting and New England Yearly Meeting, this workshop is offered free of charge, with thanks to the Friends Foundation for the Aging.
Although the workshops are meant to build upon each other, you are welcome to participate even if you cannot make it to each session.
 
Part 1: Understanding Cognitive Decline and Dementia
Friday, December 4th from 11 am – 1 pm MT
Our guest presenter will be Kadine Mitchell, Chief Operating Officer of Friends House Retirement Community in Sandy Spring, Maryland. Drawing on over twenty years of experience in senior living and healthcare, Kadine will discuss cognitive decline, dementia, and memory care. Together, we will explore:
  • How do we talk about cognitive decline and dementia in a way that is accurate and non-stigmatizing?
  • How do we meet people where they are as they experience cognitive changes?
  • How does the reality of cognitive decline and dementia impact our relationships? 
Part 2: How Can Meetings Respond?
Friday, January 8th from 11 am – 1 pm MT
Drawing from personal stories, together we will explore questions like: 
  • How can Meetings offer pastoral care not only to Friends with dementia, but also to their caregivers and loved ones?
  • How can Quaker Meetings support Friends with cognitive decline and dementia in meeting for worship and meeting for business in ways that honor both the individual and the gathered community?
  • How can nominators and others help Friends with dementia continue to find meaningful ways to contribute to Meeting life as their capacity for service changes? 
Part 3: Dementia and One’s Spiritual Journey
Friday, February 5th from 11 am – 1 pm MT
Interwoven with worship, Friends will have the opportunity to reflect together:
  • What are the spiritual challenges and gifts that come with living with dementia as well as caregiving for loved ones?
  • How do cognitive impairments affect the spiritual journey? 
  • How can individuals, families, and faith communities make space and open ourselves to transformation through the pain and spiritual growth that comes with dementia?
Facilitators
Patti Muldoon, of Monadnock (New Hampshire) Meeting and previously Friends Meeting at Cambridge (Massachusetts), serves as New England Yearly Meeting’s Aging Resources Consultation and Help (ARCH) Coordinator. Drawing on years of experience accompanying others through loss, including as a death doula, Patti works with Friends and Friends meetings exploring aging and end of life issues.
Patti Nesbitt, of Sandy Spring (Maryland) Meeting, clerked Baltimore Yearly Meeting’s End of Life Working Group, co-authoring the book A Tender Time: Quaker Voices on the End of Life. Patti is a retired palliative care nurse, a caregiver, a traveling minister, and a graduate of the School of the Spirit.
 
Registration is now open! Register here.
A request that Friends avoid ministry in meeting about political parties, candidates or elected officials
On political messages in Meeting – Our weekly Meeting for Worship and time for Joys and Sorrows are sacred times for us to listen to the Spirit and cherish our community.  For many, Sunday worship is a refuge from politics and turmoil that are surrounding us this fall. As we seek peace, justice, equality and stewardship in our lives and the world, we request that Friends avoid ministry in meeting about political parties, candidates or elected officials.
 
Posted by Chris Moore for SL&M
Program Tech Volunteers Needed
We need more tech volunteers in order to continue running hybrid programs. It’s fun, and training is available. Newer, younger attenders would fit these roles well.

Volunteers are needed for all jobs: Zoom-host, Camcorder Operator, AV Operator, and Day-of-program Lead. We also need a Program Tech Coordinator starting in May when Margaret steps down from this position. (Volunteer now to have plenty of time for training.)

Contact Margaret or Judi Dressler for details.

Submitted by Margaret Wallace

Quaker Involvement in the World - view the results of our questionnaire

Quaker Involvement in the World.

Results from the questionnaire that we filled out on this topic are now on the BFM Website at the bottom of the Public Resources page (see https://boulderfriendsmeeting.org/resource-materials-2/), OR you can click this link to see the PDF file directly.

Posted by Chris Moore for SL&M

Witness for Democracy - Join Us!

We hold weekly vigil/demonstration on serious concerns facing our county – war, human rights, immigrants, ICE, climate and meeting human needs.

All are encouraged to attend and are welcome! Each Sunday, Broadway, and Pearl, 1:30 PM

Posted by Chris Moore for SL&M

A Query from Quaker Indivisible regarding free, fair, and safe elections

What actions are we as Individuals and as a Meeting taking to encourage all citizens to vote and ensure free, fair, and safe elections and outcomes?

Quaker Indivisibles encourage members and attenders to take one action each day to encourage people to vote and protect our democracy.

Quaker Indivisible is a group of Friends and others that strives to promote peace, protect human and political rights of citizens and immigrants, promote democracy, and address climate change.

Posted by Chris Moore for SL&M

Our Community

These announcements are not necessarily endorsed by Boulder Friends Meeting but are provided as a service to members and attenders

Margot Smit presents: The Choice To Resist: What Our Relatives Did During the Nazi Occupation, Oct 8, 6:30 pm, Boulder Library
Presentation: The Choice To Resist: What Our Relatives Did During the Nazi Occupation of The Netherlands in WWII. 
 
Margot Smit of Boulder Meeting and friend André will speak about their family’s Resistance involvement, and ask: what choice might you have made? 
 
Thursday Oct 8, 2026. 6:30 – 8:00 p.m. Free.
Canyon Theater, Boulder Main Library.  
The Choice To Resist: What Our Relatives Did During the Nazi Occupation of The Netherlands in WWII.
 
Susan Rose & Rebecca Folsom House Concert, rescheduled to Nov 13th
Hi Friends,
It’s that time again! Rebecca Folsom and I are offering a house concert, a pre-Thanksgiving good luck concert on a Friday the 13th in November. I am so sorry I had to cancel the garden concert we had planned for August 1st, but getting sick wins over plans. Barring the unforeseen, this will be a delightful evening, full of good and varied music, good cheer, fellowship and yummy snacks. I’ll even make some the baked goods, and not rely entirely on Costco. If you would like to come, it works to get it on your calendar on the early side and let me know if you are coming. I’ll send this flyer out again later on.
 
Warmly, Susan
 
Please help with bringing meals to Steven Sherman-Boemker and his wife Iris, home from the hospital
Iris, Steven Sherman-Boemker’s wife, returned home after 12 days in the hospital. She has been in and out of the hospital since an injury that occurred in May.
 
As she recovers from surgery at home, she will have a limited diet. Their daughter Lauren has set up a Meal Train (which provides a volunteer schedule for bringing food for them) to help support Steven while he’s serving as caregiver. Since Steven is taking care of Iris, their pets, house and more, he would appreciate those looking for a way to help by bringing him a home cooked meal or restaurant meal delivery. Please provide 1-3 portions at a time. 
 
  • Both Iris and Steven are vegetarians. Also, Iris is allergic to Broccoli and Mushrooms, so please do not include those.
  • Please text or call ahead of bringing food so that Steven can put the dogs in their crates, otherwise they will block the door barking when you arrive
 
Thank you for your help!
Ben Lloyd offers free coaching services

Meeting member Ben Lloyd is offering free coaching services as he launches Act 3 Coaching – coaching for people past the half-way mark. A coach can help you with projects, life transitions, wellness activities and more.

Please see www.act3.live for more info, and contact Ben via email, phone or in-person with questions.

Exploration of previous lives with Dan Booth

Dan Booth is interested in exploring the concept of lives before this one. He has been guided and helped others as a guide.

Call or email him if you want to discuss this topic.

Massage and Tai Chi Sessions by Makaan Burt, CYT, CTC

Makaan is continuing his 23 year practice of the magic modalities of Ayurvedic Oil massage, customized Yoga Therapy and Musical Tai Chi.

Sessions are at his North Boulder office. 303 257 8219

Next BFM Book Group: Stone Blind by Natalie Haynes, Nov 14, 1 pm, Meetinghouse Library

Dear Bookies, Potential Bookies and Communications:

Four stalwart Friends met for our previous book group and had an interesting discussion of The Odyssey.  It turns out we all read the Emily Wilson translation, and two of the four had seen the most recent movie.  This translation is recommended; the movie not so much.  

Since we were in the Greek mode, Paul Landskroner suggested books (and podcasts) by Natalie Haynes.  We chose Stone Blind, which is her compassionate retelling of the story of Medusa.  It is available as a book, ebook and audiobook, so lots of choices.  
 
We will meet on Saturday, November 14th at 1:00 in the Meetinghouse Library to discuss this book; this is a work day, so you can do both, with lunch in between if you so choose.
We hope to have more of you join our group, and I’m always open to suggestions for books for the future.
 
Our pick for the next Book Group after that, which will be in the new year, as we don’t meet in December, is: The Ballad of the Fugitive William Parker: A True Tale of Love, Murder, Treason, and Ordinary Folks Who Saved America.  This book is non-fiction by Cristin O’Keefe and wait for it—includes Quakers!
 
Questions to me, Becky Hutchins, and again, encourage book suggestions!
 

Regular Worship, Child Care, and First Day School Schedules

Hybrid IN-PERSON/Zoom Worship Sunday at 10:00

Boulder Friends Meeting conducts hybrid in-person and Zoom worship every Sunday at 10 AM.

You are welcome to come to the meetinghouse or join us online. Friends often gather for coffee and fellowship after in-person Meeting. Optional participation in fellowship breakout rooms immediately follows Meeting for Worship on Zoom most Sundays.

If you choose to attend in-person, we request that you please refrain from applying perfume or scented body care products prior to entering the Meeting House.

Join Zoom Meeting with video from a computer, tablet, or smart phone: https://zoom.us/j/96273568620?pwd=TDlDTW1SalJGUzRjT3B1dnkwbnhoZz09. Join with audio only by phone: 1-669-900-6833 (*6 to mute/unmute, *9 to raise hand) Meeting ID: 962 7356 8620 Password: 063025

Early Worship in the Meetinghouse Sunday 8:30 – 9:30

Our Early Meeting for Worship in the meetinghouse (no Zoom) usually attracts a handful of Friends who generally worship in silence.

No announcements or group sharing of Joys and Sorrows as in the 10:00 Meeting. You can greet friends arriving for the later meeting if you stick around afterwards. All are welcome.

First Day School (Sunday School) Calendar Year Events 2026 - 2027

First Day School (FDS) meets from 10:15 am to 11:35 am every Sunday except on the 5th Sunday of the month.  On those Sundays, you can bring children to the Child Care Program.  

This activity is for children grades K-5. Families are encouraged to attend Meeting-for-Worship with their children for the first 15 minutes from 10 to 10:15 am.

Calendar items:
August 31st – Intergenerational Worship and Ice Cream Social
October 25th – Intergenerational Worship
December 20th – Children’s Christmas Program
December 27th – Intergenerational Worship
February 28 – Intergenerational Worship
March 28th – FDS Sponsored Easter Celebration & Easter Breads (in the backyard)
April 25th – Intergenerational Worship
May23rd – Intergenerational Worship and Ice Cream Social end of school celebration

Please contact firstday@boulderfriendsmeeting.com, First Day School Committee (FDSC) convener(s) to inquire about childcare options and the First Day School schedule in 2026. 

Nursery and Childcare

Nursery and Childcare are available every Sunday at Boulder Friends Meeting.

Contact childcare@boulderfriendsmeeting.org with questions.

Outdoor Sunday Morning Worship in Louisville 10:00 AM

All are invited to outdoor worship in Cottonwood Park, Louisville 10:00-11:00 AM. 

Cottonwood Park Worship group meets at 9 AM for the months of June, July, and August; the rest of the year the meeting starts at 10 AM.

Cottonwood Park is located on the corner of Via Appia and S Boulder Rd. in Louisville.

Parking is available on the street in front of 1473 Adams Place. Walk along the easement between the houses, and you will see the fishing deck just down the hill to the south. Bring your own chair and a sun hat. For more info, contact Claudia Johnson (please see directory or Bulletin for Claudia’s email address; we don’t publish contact info on this public page).

Alternate First Sunday Meeting for Worship in Arvada

Barb invites you to attend Meeting for Worship at her home in Arvada (8467 Chase Drive) on the first Sunday of the month 

Call Barb at 303-918-9065 with questions. All are welcome!

Daily Early Morning Worship on Zoom with Pendle Hill

Friends are invited to join Morning Worship on Zoom with Pendle Hill every morning at 6:30 AM MT. 

Invitation to Worship with Albuquerque Meeting

Hello Boulder Quakers! Albuquerque Monthly Meeting has the following invitation for you:

The Worship and Ministry Committee of Albuquerque Monthly Meeting invites you to attend our twice-a-month online Wednesday evening Meeting for Worship.
These are held on the first and third Wednesdays from 7:00 to 8:20 pm. Be sure to use the correct Zoom link as they are different from one another.

1st Wednesday link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/89750287720?pwd=eE9tREVBM1ZJSXVXKzU5WTMrNXUrZz09
3rd Wednesday link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/85195820625?pwd=WDQxYW90V20zTXREZnYzSlpuVWlyZz09

We are inviting members from meetings within IMYM to join us, which will enable us to have fellowship beyond just the annual gathering. Please feel free to forward this email to Friends who might be interested in attending.

The format of this meeting is as follows: unprogrammed worship for one hour (7:00-8:00 pm) and then introductions, sharing of joys and sorrows, brief announcements, and time for fellowship. We request that you enter the meeting in silence. The first person to open the link will begin expectant worship. Participants will automatically be muted as they join. Please unmute only to give vocal ministry and then re-mute during the first hour.

Should you need help during the meeting, use Chat to send a direct message to the Host, who can be found under the Participant tab. Please avoid use of the chat for any other purpose during the worship hour, as many find it distracting.

Contact Henry Selters or Lynn Huxtable with any questions. Their contact info is in the directory. We hope to see you there!

Some Ways You Can Help

Volunteers needed for Friend at the Door

Volunteers are needed to welcome visitors and Friends arriving for Meeting for Worship. 

Please contact Steven Sherman-Boemker, at 303-817-6061 or ssherman.boemker@gmail.com if you are interested in serving as Friend at the Door.

Sign up to Help with Fellowship
Looking for an easy way to get involved in the BFM Community?
 
Consider working on the Fellowship Committee. Friends are needed to prepare coffee/tea and snacks after Meeting for Worship/before Fellowship begins. Friends help according to their schedule and availability. There are no Committee Meetings! Please call or text Linda Johnson ( 970-420-3289) for more information or to signup. You may also select a date to serve using the sign-up sheet on the Bulletin Board in the Fellowship Room. Thanks in advance!
EFAA (Emergency Family Assistance Association) Food Donations Are Badly Needed

Please bring non-perishable food donations for EFAA.

The white barrel is at the meetinghouse year round waiting to be filled, and Friends have offered to deliver the food to EFAA. Other donations can be taken or sent to EFAA at 1575 Yarmouth Ave., Boulder, 80304, just a few blocks from the meetinghouse!

– Submitted by the Service Committee

Cook and Serve with BFM at All Roads Homeless Shelter in Boulder

Boulder Friends Meeting cooks and serves dinner at All Roads Shelter for the Homeless on the third Saturday of every month.

Please contact Steven Sherman Boemker with questions or to sign up for your first volunteer shift.

King Soopers Community Rewards

This fundraising source, set up by Sharon Reimer, continues to benefit our Meeting.

Friends can link their King Sooper loyalty card to a charity. If they choose our Meeting as the charity, King Soopers will donate a fraction of each purchase amount to our Meeting, at no cost to the customer. In June 2026 the meeting received $58.82 as the result of purchases by 15 households. http://www.kingsoopers.com  have details. Ask to link your card to Boulder Meeting of Friends (JT735).

 

Ongoing Meeting Announcements

Parking Reminder: Please park across the street
 
We have a number of members and attenders with mobility issues. If possible, please park across the street and leave the spaces in the parking area behind the Meeting House for those who might need easier access to the building. Thank you. 
 
Helen Braider
BFM Meeting House Fragrance-Free Request

Out of respect for those who are sensitive to chemicals and fragrances, please refrain from use of much perfume and scented body care products (scented deodorant, shampoo, soap, etc.) prior to entering Boulder Friends Meeting House for Sunday Meeting for Worship or other BFM events/activities. Another thing that would help would be to avoid use of scented detergent, as the clothes remain scented (they don’t lose the fragrance after a few days, as some people think).

Friends Emergency Fund

The Meeting has an Emergency Fund that helps individuals/families connected to the Meeting who are faced with severe short-term financial need.

Information about the fund — how to apply, limitations — can be found under Procedures, Policies, and Finances on the website; scroll down the page a little to find the link.
For more information, please feel free to contact the Clerk, the Associate Clerk, or the convener of the Care Committee.

"Light" requests between Worship

A group of twenty Boulder Quakers are available to take requests for Light.

Simply send your request to Dan Booth. (You can find Dan’s contact information in the directory. We generally don’t post personal contact information on this page due to its public accessibility).

Would you like to participate in sending Light to those who request it? First suggested as a prayer circle, “Circle of Light” seemed a more inclusive name. We try to surround those in need with Light as soon as it is requested.

Should you wish to remain anonymous, just provide whatever details are needed for us to focus on your situation.

Meeting House Rental for Outside Groups & Community members

If you or someone you know is looking for a venue at which to hold regular meetings or a single event, please keep our building in mind. 

It can be for one day or one evening, a weekend, or on-going as a place to meet weekly or monthly. Rates are very reasonable. We only lease for non-profit purposes. Contact Linda Johnson, Building Use Coordinator, at buildingcoord@boulderfriendsmeeting.org.

How to…

How to View Programs, including Spiritual Journeys and Memorials

Log into our website at boulderfriendsmeeting.org to view programs, including Mena’s, Linda Jacobson’s, Sue Henderson’s and Ben Lloyd’s spiritual journeys (plus LOTS of other Friends’ SPs), as well as other programs, from the Members page.

You can also request a login: Look for the Log-in drop-down menu at the top of the page and follow the “Create a Login” process.

How to be added to or removed from Boulder Friends Meeting's Email Lists
To be added to any of Boulder Friends Meeting’s email lists (or to be removed from them), please send an email to boulderfriendsmeeting@gmail.com. 
In the email, let us know which lists you would like to be added to:
 
– The Friday/Saturday weekly Bulletin list
– The Emergency/Memorial list
– The monthly Business Meeting list
 
You are welcome to join all lists or just one or two.
How to Post on BFM Social Media Websites

If you want to share images or text on the BFM Facebook and/or Instagram websites, please submit a request by e-mail tosocial@boulderfriendsmeeting.org.

The Inbox at this address is monitored by Austin Lear, Mena Focken, and Gail Toko-Ross.

Submission Guidelines for Announcements, Bulletin, and Calendar

Submit final text to be posted on the Announcements page of the website, in the Friday Bulletin and as an event on the online calendar.
Please download and refer to the Communication Submissions Guidelines PDF or read them below.

Announcement:
Submit your announcement in final form. Please include the following information.

  • Short title
  • Body of the announcement including date, time and location. There is no word limit, but please be reasonable. 🙂
  • You may include links and/or attachment files, such as images and/or PDFs
  • “Submitted by” (Committee or Individual Friend)
  • When the post should be taken down
  • Do NOT include personal contact information in Announcements, unless it’s in an image attachment that cannot be read by spambots. Personal contact information may be published in the Friday Bulletin, however.

 
Friday Bulletin:

Send a brief (40 word max) version for the Friday Bulletin. Include the most relevant information and links. You can refer readers to the Announcements page. Bulletin items must be received by 10 a.m. on Friday to ensure inclusion in that day’s Bulletin.

Calendar:

Include date, time, Zoom/in-person/hybrid, Zoom link if different from regular BFM link, and description.

 How to Submit:

Send your information to communications@boulderfriendsmeeting.org

What Not to Send:

Please do not include personal contact information in any announcements. Personal e-mail addresses and phone numbers will be removed from submitted announcements before they are posted.

 Gratefully,

Communications Team: Paul Landskroener and Judi Dressler

How to plan a Boulder Friends Meeting Program
Do you have an idea for a BFM program? If so, here are guidelines:

https://boulderfriendsmeeting.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/02/SLM-Program-Guidelines-ver.-11.pdf

 

Committee Building Use - Contact the Communications Team

Please tell our Communications team when your committee will meet and which room you will use.

This goes on our calendar, for all of us to view and plan, and to avoid overlaps between BFM groups and outside organizations.

FYI, if you run or are connected to an outside organization that wishes to use the meetinghouse, please contact our Building Use Coordinator. 

For further information about any of the above, contact announcements@boulderfriendsmeeting.org.